As many of you know this will be our second trip to Haiti, our first time meeting the boys, but no, we won't be bringing them home. Not yet.
Unfortunately, we are not very far in the process even though we've been at it for about a year and a half.
A lot of people ask us why it takes so long. The amount of time an international adoption takes varies by country. Each country requires their own specific steps and procedures. The nice thing about Haiti adoptions is that you can visit your children there about once a quarter. Below are the steps and time it takes to complete them.
Minister of Foreign Affairs
2-8 weeks
Preparation of file for IBESR (This is where we are)
2-8 weeks
IBESR
3-12 months
Civil Court
4-8 weeks
Legalization
4-12 weeks
Minister of Interior/MOI
3-6 months
Immigration/Passport printing
2-8 weeks
USCIS
3 weeks minimum
Visa Process
1 -2 weeks
Total timeframe
12 – 28 months
If I look at the the time frames, it's easy to get discouraged. However, Chris and I learned a valuable lesson with our second daughter's adoption. There were many court dates involved, all required steps and part of the process. Each time we counted on the court date and that particular step to be completed, we were let down. The court date would come and go with the case not being heard, or with the step being delayed another 6 months. After a while, that became heart breaking and completely discouraging. Then, we began to feel a nudging from the Lord to trust in the promises he had given us for this adoption and not to focus on the court dates and not to be intimidated by them. Which is exactly the opposite of what our circumstances were dictating. The judge held the verdict in his hands right? That's what the world tells us. That's where we got off track. We put our faith in the judge and the way the world ran things and not in Christ. By his grace, he refocused our eyes on him. Even though we had to walk by faith and not by sight (taking our eyes off what we could see in the courts, and putting our eyes on Christ and the unseen that he was working out) we began to have total confidence and peace. Peace that he had given us a promise and that he would make good on it. We've continued to look at each adoption that way. He gives us a promise in his word and that's where we try to keep our focus. We know he is able.
In the Light of Days
2 years ago
Amen ! That is so right:) It is so cool to know that even when we can't see the whole picture, that God can and he is working behind the scences on our behalf and on the behalf of our children. He has good plans for us !
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What a beautiful point! Knowing that brings joy to the journey. Looking so forward to Haiti! ~Mare
ReplyDeleteThat is true I have to remind myself that he only gives us what he knows we can handle. see you guys soon-Candice
ReplyDeleteI went back and read your post again, because I love it! We are still waiting on word from Haiti for our three children to one day come home. Here in America we are still waiting for a court date for pre-trial to take place for two more here... I have to agree times five family members all at once in our home... we just really have to trust in Him and His will. He will never let us down. Beautiful post! Great big hug. Love you guys! ~Mare
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