Monday, February 9, 2009

Snips and Snails and Puppy Dog Tails?

Just so there's no confusion, Vanessa and D'Jounela's birthparents do have the girls and want to try and care for them. Vanessa is very content and D'Jounela is not well and in the hospital again. The birthparents have suffered through pain, loss and guilt and they need our prayers for healing and for provision to care for the girls. Haiti is just hard and decisions for those who live there are hard as well. Parents who bring their children to the orphanage are looking for help, not because they don't love the children, but because they are unable to provide. Sometimes that's only for a time and sometimes, it's the final decision.

As, for Chris and I, we know the Lord has led us here and we will continue to follow. We don't have all the answers. But neither did Abraham when the Lord told him to leave his home and follow him. That's where faith comes in.
We are privileged to have been a part of the girl's life for whatever reason the Lord chose. And, we are privileged to continue to follow his voice as he speaks to us about orphans, about people in need, about adoption, and about family.

So, back to "what boys are made of."

I've been waiting to post about the boys because I was kind of waiting on this feeling of loss to pass. It's much better, but still lingering.


So, I think sharing the news will help.





Meet Changlais and Schneider, our boys.




We are moving forward with our referral. Thank you for your prayers and support.

Many Blessings and may you dive deeper into Christ's endless love.

15 comments:

  1. Praying the Lord's blessing on your new referral! Thank you for your faithfulness. My heart has always been in Haiti, and I have a soft spot for boys. What fun! They are so handsome.

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  2. Congratulations! May God Bless your Journey.... Paula hoping to adopt "Brandi"

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  3. Oh, WOW!!!! Are they in Haiti as well?

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  4. Oh my, they're handsome! I know how hard it is to 'lose' your child you'd planned for, especially after meeting them and knowing that where they're staying is not nearly as good as where they would be with you... and then having to turn around and say "ok, God, you brought me here, what's next?" And turn around and say 'yes' to another set of children while your heart is still grieving. May the Lord heap His blessings upon you as you continue to follow the path He's laid out for you and your family! Meredith-RR

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  5. I'm so glad you shared this! Congratulations on your boys, and know you're being prayed for. It is encouraging to see you following the Lord, despite the heartache that comes in the process. Keep your eye on the prize!

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  6. We are so happy for you and sad at the same time but i remeber these boys and they are so cute congrates

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  7. These boys will be perfect in your family, they are darling! I know it is hard to move on and still mourn what is lost but you are right God gives us these little children and sometimes it is just for a little while but you gave those little girls just what they needed at that time. Moving forward in faith, what else can you do?

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  8. What handsome boys. Thank you so much for listening to God even in the midst of your pain.
    Joy,RR

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  9. Boys!! What a sweet post! Congratulations guys! Your boys are sooo beautiful! We are so excited for you all! What a blessing! ~ Pete and Mare

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  10. What handsome boys! Congratulations! I can't begin to understand what you've been through but your faith is strong and surely these children are THE children that the Lord has for you. :o)

    Missy

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  11. Congratulations! What handsome boys. I know these are hard and mixed feelings but what a blessing you are to these sweet children in Haiti.

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  12. Congratulations! Boys really are like puppy dog tails, always going and keeping us going too.

    Melissa, your journey, your understanding heart, your charity and your faithfulness in the midst of pain really are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing.

    Natalie (RR)

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  13. They have beautiful eyes, you could get lost in them! Praying for God to be glorified in your pain and in your joy as others see you walk in obedience to Him.

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  14. Melissa, I'm a bit behind, but I just saw that you've decided to make these two beautiful boys part of the Peterson Family.

    I've felt for a long time that there was something special about these two and it thrills me that they'll be your sons. I literally have chills and tears just thinking about it.

    I know you've been through hell. But from one Christian to another, it FEELS right that this is your family.

    Bless you, sister! I'm so thrilled for all of you!

    L

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